I agree with you. Respect and consideration are very important, and often times people are not treated with either in that forum. The best thing you can do is to let it go and move on. Sounds like you did learn some things at the forum, be grateful for whatever good came of it, and then try to let go of whatever negative energy was sent your way. I know, its easier said than done, but its still the best course of action. Best wishes for you.