I am a 20 year old female who has consistantly had trouble reaching cllmax. As of current I have had 3 sexual partners and as far as i am concerned not reached an cllmax once. I am deeply troubled by this because while i enjoy sex [even if it is simply to give my partner pleasuer] I would like to experience an cllmax. I am afraid I am stopping myself with a deep fear of . . . .well peeing on my partner. When i get this feeling i tend to shut down i dont know what i am supposed to feel when I am about to cllmax. From what i have heard it is supposed to feel like a tingle, which, i think feels exactly the same as the feeling I get when i have to go to the bathroom. If anyone has any advice on how i can over come this or how i can fix this myself or if anyone else has had this problem and overcame it i would be ever so greatful.