We use our Free Will prior to coming to Earth; our guides assist us in choosing which life themes we are to work on, set up meeting times for various people -- lovers, children, etc. and on and on.
The young Mother and child have already agreed to be together -- either the child needs the lessons of being born to a single, young Mother, without a Father, or the Mother needs to know what life is like being on her own and raising a child. These events have been well planned; each has agreed to help the other.
A child may come to parents for only a few months and then leave; perhaps the parents wanted to experience grief; perhaps the child arrived and found the parents to be more argumentative or whatever other aspect he/she did not want to experience and so left.
I, personally, am against abortion because it is an easy solution, one that could generally be avoided by a little disciple on the participants' part. The soul probably has not yet entered the fetus; if it has, then it simply leaves.
Things work out as things are supposed to work out. There are no mistakes. We are all here to feel emotion for our Creator. He/She is neutral; there is NO judgment.
Each of our lives is an obstacle path; how we handle the obstacles determines whether we travel along a smooth or rough road. Usually, we ignore the small lessons and end up with a BIG one which causes us to change our ways; once we start to recognize this, we generally smarten up and become aware that we are being presented with life lessons. Learn each one and then move on to the next one. If MH had not been so sick, he would not be the MH today!
The planet Earth is about Love; I have read that this is the only planet like that.
Organized religions all have the same theme; therefore, do they not all have the same Creator? The stories which are told in the various cultures around the world are very similar. These stories are meant to keep everyone 'in line' so that we do not think about the greater reality of our existence. Once we recognize that we are greater than we are taught by the religious folks, we have an opportunity to grow to be more self-reliant, more wise, more genuinely giving, more genuinely loving, etc.......
Lately, I have read a most interesting book which describes simultaneous incarnations -- where up to 1,600 different lives are being lived by one Higher Self. The lessons of each lifetime are being assimilated by the HS. Once all of the lifetimes are complete (they are all living at the same time, but in different time periods), then the Higher Self will move to the next dimension. It sounds amazing!! This type of information is mind-blowing and it can be quite disconcerting to read of these things. However, it is also fascinating to learn that we have such a spectacular adventure ahead of us.
Do not worry about a child choosing you and suddenly being in your womb -- you must participate in a sexual encounter. If you do, then, be very careful. This is YOUR decision and you must always be aware of the consequences of any impetuous moment.