Sorry to hear that. You didn't give us much detail about him. Is he normal? Is he sociopathic, like does he do the sorts of things that he said about the note as a manipulation or control thing? If not, maybe you are not fully following the program or not in the right way or he may be someone who just does not want to respond to anything you try no matter what, for whatever reason. That is my best guesses. If I were you, I would call Ellen and ask!