I am really sorry that you are going through this right now. It is quite common to feel pain and burning sensations with a genital herpes outbreak, particularly when urinating.
To help relieve the pain, here are a few tips that might help:
You can find more useful tips and explanations for these here.
The good news is that things will get better and there are excellent support services and treatments that can help if you need them along the way.
The first outbreak is almost always the worst because the body has not yet built up antibodies to defend itself against the herpes virus.
Some people never get a recurrence but if you do it is likely to be far more mild and to heal faster, as your body produces antibodies after a few weeks which help your body to cope with the virus and heal more efficiently.
Hang in there and stay strong. If you need support along the way try the Herpes and Cold Sores Support Forum or a local support group in your area (you will find links to these on the Support Forum above).
Herpes Support Team