tha_mexikanz
im 19 and have been going out with this girl for about 3 years. well we started out as friends but quickly escalated to something more. since she didnt live in town i always just hung out with my friends and i just saw her every couple of months. while we lived appart we had created in our minds what we wanted the other to be like and never really talked about how we really felt on things. when she finally moved out and we moved in it was a total shock. we had no ideah who eachother really was. the first couple of months were really hard. we fought all the time about stuff we should have already known. the issue about me looking at other girls came up, and i was honest with her. i told her how when she didnt live with me i would look at girls on tv and watch movies with nudity(not porn, but movies like american pie or wedding crashers). i never really saw anything wrong with it, because every friend i had and even my parents watch that kind of stuff as couples and they dont care, so i assumed that she didnt. well she did and from that point on i guess she has not been able to trust me. its been about 1 1/2 years since i told her and i guess now she tells me she cant do it anymore. i have totally changed my life around for this girl, i no longer watch anything like that and if it ever comes on tv i always look away. i do it now out of respect for her but i feel like ive been doing it for nothing and she still doesnt beleve me. so if anyone can help me please i need some advise on what i should do to fix this problem or if anyone thinks it would be best for us to just go our seperate ways.