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umm why ar eyou saying orgasisms are bad?
without gettign blunt i would sugges tyou relax and get a good book on female gentalia and learn for your self/ mayb eyour parntene is not awaure of how to arouse you. and i fyou don't know your self then youcan't evne begitn to helphimunderstand what is best fo ryou .
ithinkt he main thing is don't put pressu reon your self thingkign sooem thing is wrogn with you when probalby jstu is lack of knowledge and feelign self concious or liek yo uHAVe to to be normal... any good skill requieres a bi trof tiem , knowlege and practice. you sia dist was bad bu tyou did not state why you said so/ if it was foor religious reasons honey you are far afar wrong.
there is ntohing in bible says that orgasism s or masurbation are wrong. and hoen yeveryoen does it so don't fell soemthign is bad about tryign fidn way s to release sexaul tension etc.
umm i will not be graphic here /certainly dont wan tto risk misunderstnadings get soem good self helsp books and experiment with yourself and learn . youare missing out on an inteeregral par tof your sexual identity. itis a par tof your body as a woman and there is not one bad thing about havign orgasisms.they are healthy in fact... in good mental and physicle health
my onle concern fo ryou is /if youare sexually active i sure hope youare takign precautiosn agaisn unwanted pg o rhave palns wha tyou woudl do if it ahppend and most certainly aware of health risks involved. when you have sex with nayoen youaare havign sex with every person they ahve been with basically in last 10 years soem thign to seriousl y weight. esp intoday s world where folks often paly aaround behidn each other etc 8( so pela s e take precautions paly it smart and live long