Lonely girl's advice is really good.
My advice is sometimes you can't change the person's mind but....
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Romance Dating Advice:
Firstly Lovelorn Friend, don't move in with him. Moving house with a man that does not want to commit only worsen the situation big time.
Tell him that you will only move in with him, until he puts a ring on your finger first, and I'm not talking about engagement ring, which is a start, but a marriage ring.
If you give in to his wishes he will totally forget about yours. He won't commit in holy matrimony if you are now living together, he will see this has like he said 'already married.'
You done rightly by thinking about marriage, cause if I'm right you are someone with values, which sees living together a sin a no win situation!
Secondly this idea sometimes work, if you know he has a jealous bone in his body, then flirt. Men get jealous very quickly when their woman starts flirting with someone else, they see it has a sign that you are about to feather your nest somewhere- else. Or flirt with the idea that you are about to move abroad somewhere, this is another sign that you are leaving him, a solid threat. If he gets wind of it, it might make him ship shape very quickly for fear of losing you.
Thirdly and lastly if none of the above worked then he does not give a toss about you, and is extremely self-fish, so dump the prune and go elsewhere.
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