Gala
I think that you are speaking of young women there ?
And no, you don't understand the women, and they don't understand themselves either, if that's what they say.
Young girls confuse everything, they confuse love with sex, like Kruplaklassy said so well, they are very stange in their actions, because they behave very sexy while they think they are looking for the Prince charming, actually. I think it is because of all the sexy stars at the TV and show business who seem to be so loved and have a fantasitic life, so they dress the same, behave this way, being sexy, and even don't realize how their attitude is aggressive and is felt by the men and boys. They just don't undestand your sexuality, nor you don't understand theirs.