discodeca
I can't blame her for breaking up with me, it's mainly my fault to let this happen. The qualities that she wants in a guy is being creative, confident, and self motivated. All these traits are achievable, but I can't seem to make it happen. I guess this is because I probably don't love her enough to be that person that she wants. I'm disappointed in myself for not trying hard enough for her. I don't know why I can't do this.
She's not the person who always wants to seek someone new all the time. She's a very down-to-earth girl who needs some spark in her life. We've been together for over none years and the spark that we once had is quickly disappearing. I know I failed for not keeping that spark in our relationship as bright as can be.
After reading a few of you guys and gals replies, I finally realized that I'm the one who's been hold her back all this time. I think she should have been enjoying the world and see everything that she's been missing. I've been keeping her too close to me and as a result I've shut her out from the exploring the wonderful things that the outside world can bring.
I thought about giving our relationship another chance the past few nights, but I feel it would be unfair for her if I chose that path. Am I stupid for thinking this way?