FRUITY BOOTY
Bob you summed it nicely.
It sounds like your mother is contributing to your weight problem? Is she overweight? Have you tried talking to her about your desire to lose weight? Make sure she understands the health/medical issues associated with excessive weight. Ask for help? Ensure her that this is about staying healthy, and do about appreance.
What is typical food day for you (including foods eaten for bkfast, lunch, and dinner)? How much and what kinds of snacks?
What and how much are you drinking?
Do you cook for yourself or rely on mom?
Do you eat out often? What and how much do you outside home?
Do you reward yourself with foods?
I may can offer some specific dietary advice if you answer the above questions.
Stel