Sorry for the pain and sorry for your husband, lol. Let's be serious for a minute now...
I have been posting quite a bit on this forum because i found a great anwer to my tmj problems and i want to share it with everyone.
Like you, i had the same problems (intense pain,...) for a few years. Tried everything out there, saw about 20 different dentists, spend A LOT of money for nothing!
The last dentist i saw referred me to www.tmj-help.org saying that they had the "miracle cure" for my tmj. I had already spend hundreds of dollars in "miracle cures" without any result so i was a little skeptical.
5 days and about $50 later, my tmj pain was almost gone!!! I could not believe it! No more popping, no more intense pain in my ears and neck.
I recommand this website to everyone because it worked great on me and on a few other people i met online.
OMG, i should be a rep for this company, haha!
I hope this will help :-)