The guy I have been dating cannot keep an erection if he uses a condom. Indeed we have only been able to have sex fully (meaning he finishes) one time with a condom. He has been tested for STDs and it came back negative, and he is going to be tested again, but i'm still nervous to have unprotected sex because I know that certain types of STDs are really difficult to detect, especially in males. What should I do?? I said that I would have sex without a condom if he got tested (I'm on the pill), but now I'm having second thoughts. Does anyone know anyways for an erection to be sustained with a condom?? Help please!
Have you thought about trying to use the female condom? It would be looser and maybe less confining to your boyfriend. You would both still be protected and this may help him with his problem. I have never used one but I see them advertised so this may be your answer. Hope I have helped you Ceejay.
My wife and I call condoms "Novacaine." For me, they deaden the sensation so much, that things just don't work. My wife said that she didn't like the feeling either. Maybe she just didn't like that I wasn't staying as hard or as big. I may be very unusual, but I don't find it terribly surprising that other guys have a hard time keeping it up with a condom on.
We've never tried the female condom route. Since I've had a vascectomy, there is not more need for condoms at our house.