Ladies, am I wrong for asking? 
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I really enjoy receiving oral sex from my wife. The problem is that if I don't ask for it I rarely get it. When we have sex I go down on her without her having to say anything, for as long as she wants it. But I don't get the same treatment in return. Having to ask for it all the time makes me feel like I'm begging, and that's not cool. After 10+ years of marriage my wife knows what gets me off. My dilema is should I just wait till she voluntarily gives me oral or continue to ask when I want oral?
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This is a reply to # 533,504Personally, I don't think you are wrong for asking.
Does she react in a negative way when you ask? If not then maybe she just waits for you to give her a clue that this is what you are in the mood for.
I have always tried to pay attention to what my husband likes so I can satisfy him...alsotry to pay attention for clues that he wants something different...but that doesn't mean everyone works this way.- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? #8145
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This is a reply to # 533,505She's not negative, but she's hesitant. When she gets started she's into and does a great job (no pun intended:))- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? firegirl
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This is a reply to # 533,506I would say that your best bet is just to ask her how she feels about it. If she's hesitant, what is the reason? Some women just don't like it, or have small mouths or strong gag reflexes that make it unenjoyable for them. She may do it because she wants to please you but maybe gets no enjoyment from it herself. Do you discuss your sexual desires openly in your relationship? If so, bring it up by saying, 'is there anything i can do to please you?' and let her know what you really love and what she can do. I think if you can get to the bottom of her feelings surrounding it then you will understand where she is comng from. Good luck!
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- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? #26112
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MoreThis is a reply to # 533,512I am in the same situation. My wife has made the statement that she does oral (give/receive) for me. But as was stated I don't like to ask for it. I would like to think that she enjoys it and would want to go down. It just doesn't feel the same if you have to ask for it. She knows what I like and what feels good but she doesn't "do" any of it. It is always the same old thing time and again. It has gotten to the point of me being one of the husbands you read about who is not interested in sex anymore. Okay, I sort of got off topic....
- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? paulista
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This is a reply to # 533,516I have the same problem, opposite sex.
I love to please my fiance, and I naturally "go for it" because it gives me pleasure. He never has to ask, I do it often.
Well, he hates giving me oral, even though I am clean and healthy and very attractive. It's a hang up, or laziness. He's picky about food, so I guess he is just a picky eater :)
Anyway, in 6 years together I only managed to get it about 5 times, YES, 5 times, less than once per year, and that was after much cajoling.
We have many good things together and I love him, but I can't help feeling unwanted and not very attractive to him. It is my favorite thing in sex and he knows it. It is the best and most intense orgasm a woman can have.
I often fantasize about cheating on him just to get some OS. But I am not even interested in other men.
I have asked him why he doens't like to do it, and never got a straight answer (he clams up). But I should stop analyzing him and maybe just believe that book: "He's just not that into you"?
My biggest dilemma is: At 44, am I forced to spend the rest of my life without OS? Is it worth leaving a man I own a house with just because of one sex act? The rest of our sex is very nice (and he likes to cuddle).
So I can relate to you guys. It is very difficult. I wish there was a machine that emulated OS but there isn't.
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This is a reply to # 533,519I am 45 and the thought of leaving my wife JUST because she doens't like to give or receive oral has never crossed my mind. Even with all of the problems "we" have in bed....fantisize..yes.. but never leave her. I have just learned to do without. Yes, it feels good to get it and yes it feels great to give it...but it is not worth loosing 26 years together over. Of course my story is different from yours in the fact that I have never cum while my wife is going down. This is because she can't stand the taste. So she brings me to the edge and stops. And she has never cum with me going down...not because I haven't tried...(see another post). So I have just learned to do without.........- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? #8145
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This is a reply to # 533,521Thanks for the advice. The thought of not having OS is not as frightening as not having my wife. I'll talk to her and see how we can make everyone comfortable and happy. Thanks
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- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? bentley4
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This is a reply to # 533,519I am in the same boat. I am 32 and my husband only does it during make up sex. So I start alot of fights until he caught on.
I really do not say anything about it to him, I believe some men just do not like doing it or do not think it is lady like.
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- Re: Ladies, am I wrong for asking? #37250
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This is a reply to # 533,519I just can't imagine a man turning down a lady when it gives her that much pleasure.Seems to me when she gets him excited she should just be able to lure him right into it; then show your excitement and he should go on forever. Then again, I can't figure how to get a certain woman to respond to my desires; have been trying for years. Some things I guess I'll never learn.
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This is a reply to # 533,516If it is bothering you this much ask for it. I do not do this much on my husband but I do not mind and when I start it does turn me on.
The main reason I do not do it alot is because the next day my jaws and tonge is sore. I guess from all the muscles being used.
He will laugh but the next day I cannot even blow a bubble with my gum.
Try some flavored stuff. That will take away the salty taste from her mouth.
Do not get the cheap stuff get Kama Sutra in rasberry kiss and the honey dust. It is really nicely packaged and it is fun to buy.
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This is a reply to # 533,504No, you are not wrong to ask but personally I can tell you that I can't give Blow jobs or Head what ever you want to call it. My mouth won't open up enough and I bite and hurt instead of giving pleasure and the stuff that comes out is sicking. My jaw has been broken 3 times. The sperm makes a woman have hair grow on her face like a man. Male hormones will do that. Are you willing to pay to have it lazered off. I have 3 friends that have to shave like a man twice a day and now their husbands are complaining about their hairy faces. Can't please every body. If you do not get pleasure from giving oral sex then stop. simply put wait for her to ask. Since I can't , I don't expect my husband to but he just loves giving oral sex and really gets off on it. If you don't feel this way then don't do it. Do only what give both of you pleasure. Use her hands or your hands.
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