drofinnah
this will probably sound cruel to you... and you probably won't be able to do it... but sometimes the more you try to help an addict person... the more their ego just sees you as someone to use... they only see in you a way to get their drugs... and they will use you until you either have had enough or until you have absolutely nothing left to give... my son is an addict... i tried everything i could to help him... but he only took advantage of my help to use me... so i kicked him out... seems he's straight for now... don't know for how long... that's entirely up to him... it's not that i don't love him... i do... but sometimes the best thing for the one you love is the hardest thing for you to do... it's called tough love...
i was talking to a good friend today and he said he had to do the same thing... he took his son to and abandoned house and left him there... but his son straightened up and has been straight for over 20 years now... so sometimes what seems hard and cruel is for the best... life isn't always as it seems... it may seem hard and cruel to cut a persons heart out... but heart surgeons do it all the time...
as bad as you want to help him you can't... the only one that can kick the habit is your boyfriend... you cannot do it for him...
the best thing you can do is cut your ties with him and save yourself... like i said it sounds cruel... but drug addicts are very sick people... probably the most help you can give him is to make it as hard as possible for him... help him find his bottom... make it so hard and miserable for him that he'll want to quit... just how one goes about doing that is a good question... but if we love him to the point that we supply his habbit then we are enabling him to continue using and we are literally loving him to death...
wish i could have been of more help... but this is the best i can do for now... at this point prayer is the most powerful tool you have to use...
God bless...