How to spot women who are master manipulators so you don’t compromise your values, what you want and end up being manipulated, used, abused, taken advantage of and tossed aside after they are done with you.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a recent coaching client. He’s a very successful high-income high net worth entrepreneur with a growing business. He’s highly intelligent, tech-savvy, and possesses just the right touch of geeky/nerdy/brilliant/visionary type character traits that the Mark Zuckerberg’s of the world all possess. However, he’s kind of shy around really beautiful women and has not dated his first super beautiful unicorn yet. One of his female employees has become an unhealthy crush and dating fantasy in addition to being a key employee, close friend and confidant. He was on the verge of moving his business to another city that is closer to where this employee lives because she has become a romantic question mark and blind spot for him. After I helped him to analyze and decipher her true intentions, actions and character traits, he did some digging on her. He shares what he found and it’s eye opening. This has helped him to see reality for what it is and avoid some serious personal and professional blunders and potential setbacks.
“All humans create blind spots that prevent them from seeing people for who they really are once they become emotionally involved and attached. When we care for someone or are romantically attracted to them, we tend to focus only on what we like about them, and rationalize away or outright ignore their glaring flaws and faults. It is simply good policy and essential to your overall emotional health and wellbeing, to put everyone you meet and are considering a deeper personal or professional relationship with on probation, along with a healthy dose of skepticism. The world is full of people who will take advantage of you personally or professionally if you give them the opportunity to do so. Always judge people by what they do, not what they say or how good they look. Their past actions in previous relationships are a good indicator of how they will treat you now and in the future.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
Click the link below to read the article “Master Manipulators” on my website:
The importance of looking out for red flags when you start dating someone new so you can eject before falling in love with someone who will drive you crazy and make you miserable.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is suffering tremendously because he did not listen to my instructions to read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man,” 10-15 times to learn the basic fundamentals of what it teaches. He admits he originally only read my book once and tried cherry picking information and looking for shortcuts to success in my videos. He details how things started out great with his now ex-girlfriend. He started acting dopey and fell for what he now thinks is a woman who has borderline personality disorder (BPD). He shares the red flags that he ignored and what he learned in hopes that other men can learn from him so they won’t make the same mistake that he did.
“Success is a process. Success happens effortlessly when you are able to capitalize upon random opportunities as life presents them, only after you have done the work, put in the time and the repetitions necessary to prepare for success when your opportunity comes. Unsuccessful people tend to dabble and half-ass their way through life without any real clear focus or goal. They are therefore unable to successfully capitalize upon opportunities as life inevitably presents them due to their lack of preparation and practice. You will become better at anything that you practice. If you fail to practice and prepare ahead of time, failure is as predictable as the sun coming up in the east and setting in the west.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
Click the link below to read the article “Red Flags” on my website: