I must have fun with the name organic and now it is time to have fun with those things that "FEEL" so soft/good, smell great, etc.....
My best author proved that our bodies die the quickest when we coddle them, aka nice big soft fluffy things like "pillows". The skin is designed to feel this cold hard earth and by doing so "hardens" the body against the eliments and insures strong circulation. 1/2 of the books seeks to prove that the soft things in life is what leads to loss of circulation an an early ride in the big black car.
I totally understand your loving your pillow!!!! We all make our own choices and we all accept the judgement of each choice, we as humans have this right.
In this case, most of us do not wish to sleep on the ground and thus we shorten our lifespan tremendously.