I also understand about forgetting about our lips in order to live better and psychologically freed. I was recently told about lips surgery, notably vermilionectomy which I thought interesting. That being said, I think the problem can be resolve by a complete lips surgery, then a transplant, in a period relatively short.
I told about it this with a few plastic surgeons who were very excited to embark in this experience. They also attested that I'll never think about my lips anymore. No more irritation, no more peeling, the best way I could ever imagine.
So I followed the advice of one of them. I must visit him again in ten days. In the meantime, he has given me which type of transplants could suit me. I have the choice between twelve aspects. Of course, I'll choose the most simple, then will finally tried to live a normalish way...
Here are the few models which had been suggested to me :