Good to see you here 117759. I'm sorry to hear that is your husband's fav song. I believe prayer is very powerful and even though I do not think God would honor such a disrespectful prayer as the song portrays....I do believe that such negative thoughts do harm us because we have opened ourselves up to our husbands in the most vulnerable way.
The only way I have found to counter such negative thoughts is to sincerely pray for him (often) to come to the light of Truth and for us to know who we are and how much we are loved by Christ. In the beginning I see changes in me more than in the person I'm praying for....but in time I see a difference in the person with the dagger to my heart.