The last time i had sex was my last because it sent me into a severe state of AF. The lam article is right on this one i believe. Sex is a tricky topic. All i can say that for males it will wipe them out if they're not stabalized yet. I was not stabalized and i just went with what human being do when they see their loved ones. I missed my wife for about a week, and yes, the inevitable occcured, i did not think it would end this way.
I have no libido issues at all. In fact, i totally desire it and have many dreams. I had my first wet dream in my entire life about 2 weeks ago. i actually ejaculated slightly within the dream, i woke up very scared because my heart rate was high and i remembered my last crash was due to this.
High testosterone in women, you got me there. that's strange. thank God my wife is understanding and we have chosen to stay away from sex until this is over.
It must be a bit tougher for you though because your spouse is male. I understand.