There must be so much more to sex than just the physical cllmax. I can masturbate twice a day and still "need" to every day but after I am with my lover, that lasts at least 3 days. And I think it has to do with energy, since sometimes it isn't that it was such a great cllmax with him, but also an energy exchange.
Could it be that we are attracted to others who have a complimentary energy to our own? I feel more evened out after sex with him, but sex with myself just leaves me wanting more in no time. Not satisfying.
I am not talking about relationships and love here but I am sure being in love with someone helps, but it really does seem to keep the horniness away for awhile, it is thought provoking as to why real sex is more long lasting. Even non-penetrating sex. Does anyone have this same experience?