I don't believe any couple has a perfect love and respect all the time.
Uhh yeah! Especially when there was NONE to begin with.
This post by Sylvette above may not be written in the classiest fashion, but it reads like the gospel truth.
It's what I thought when I first read this by hthe original poster - no woman wants to think her man is a jellyfish. Had this man showed more character, she probably would not have slept around in the first place.
Some women with mamby-pamby husbands will get a lover, subconsciously desiring for the husband to find out and actually DO something about it. When the husband doesn't do anything, the wife will further sink in disappointment, and perhaps the next time she sleeps around she is really looking for what she's missing. This may sound like over generalization, but I guarantee you it's how it works 98% of the time.
Hello, I think this is a very usual problems between couples, we can never tell how loyal our partner is. No question that were having a high divorce rate here in our country. Well, it happened and there is nothing we can do about, if she does it ones, then i think its ok, but twice? it is unacceptable. You should think wisely now, its hard to pretend she loves you but in reality she doesnt. its better to to get divorce and talk about children, just be smart and think of yourself and your children