BlueRose
Hey, it's your life. If you want to go after a woman who treats you in such a sick and sadistic way, well...just be prepared to live with the consequences. You still want her even when it was pointed out to you that this woman is far from being a good catch. It would be much better if you worked on your issues to find out why you are attracted to such a sadistic person. Just my two cents---go and read SoulfulSurvivor's most recent response to you in your other thread. If that doesn't give you pause, then I don't know what will. FWIW, I agree with SoulfulSurvivor---it's never a good idea to get involved with a co-worker---no matter how nice a person it is---and this woman is not nice.