Well, it's obvious this subject needs to be clarified - so here it is:
This forum is to be a safe 'haven of healing' for any person, of any age and any belief system. No one should ever have to feel as though they can't direct their older relatives or younger children here for fear of running across adult sexual innuendos (or flat out 'not innuendos') or strong cursing that is offensive to those of conservative belief systems...of ANY age. Nor should anyone feel like they can't send someone a link to healing information, because the thread includes comments that may be offensive.
Humor is an integral part of healing and life in general (that's a "well duh", for sure). But it is VERY possible to have incredibly funny, intelligent humor without peppering text with "f-this" and "gd that", or making adult sexual remarks & innuendos.
Curtailing this kind of humor or speech doesn't take much effort, nor does it prevent any one from healing in any way, shape, or form...but not curtailing it can be offensive and anti-healing to others.
Those of you that know me personally, know that I'm far from prudish (in fact, just the opposite is true). There's an appropriate time & place for everything...and there's ample forums on Curezone where we all can go if we feel the need to curse, joke about sex, and have our egos stroked for being witty & clever...but this forum has limits.
It's called RESPECT FOR OTHERS...and you'll either have it (or pretend to have it, lol), or you will NOT post on this forum. This is not something that's open for debate.
I'll say I have to agree 100%.
I'll attest to the fact that Uny is far from prudish and she can attest to the fact that I'm also far from prudish. That being said, I have to say that there are people I know personally who would be offended to see some of the words written in this thread.
I happen to know there are older folks from a different generation that read this forum, I thought of these people when I saw these posts. We certainly don't want to cause people who desperately need to learn to heal naturally from coming to the forum because of our words.
Like Uny says it is much easier to keep it clean so that everyone can enjoy the forum. If this kind of thing were to continue the forum would start to degrade. Uny has told me she's had complaints and recently I've had some too!