Hi #85302,
Your comment: My purpose is this. I imagine in my mind this little sweet old lady that has come to this forum because someone told her about it. This is what her very first message on curezone said, that someone directed her here. She also said she was a little scared because people can be mean on these forums. She also very much thanked you for your teachings and said she had been reading a lot and learning. She is most likely the average old person out there that has lived a productive life and hardly had a health problem at all until these later years. I'm just guessing about that though. I'm going by both my grandmothers who have lived very productive lives with hardly an ache or a pain but are now starting to have problems now that they are in their late seventies and eighties. I know neither of my grandmothers know much about health but right now they are open to learning because of their suffering. But I know when I talk to both of them, they get confused easily. The things I talk about are all new to them.
I really do not believe this woman was here to complain. She thought she had discovered what was happening to her and why she couldn't handle the drink, because her test showed she had too much calcium. In an average person's mind, meaning one who hasn't studied health extensively, why wouldn't it make sense that if your test showed too much calcium, you might not need more calcium?
I just cannot imagine going off on one of my grandmother's because they were confused about something when it came to health because I know they haven't been studying that their whole life. That's not their expertise.
I'm sorry, I just felt sad for this woman in the way you treated her, and I think you confirmed her fears about people being mean on these forums. You should not jump to conclusions and assume she was just here to cause trouble.
So my purpose was to speak up and say simply, why be so mean sometimes? What is your purpose for doing that?
You said you were tired of certain things. I can understand that. Maybe you should make this a private forum then for your select few people. You are always going to have people that don't readily conform to your exact ways and understandings, and they are going to question things, and talk about their experiences, good or bad. If you don't want all that, why not make it a private forum?
Answer: If I had walked in your footsteps I would probably feel the same way as you do? Likewise if you had walked in my footsteps you may feel as I do?
The problem with your line of thinking is that this lady did --NOT-- come to this forum asking WHY she was having problems with the suggestions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She went to her God(Doctor) and took their advice without asking me for an explaination as to WHY she was having a problem !
What was her purpose of comming to this forum in the 1st place if she was going to continue to listen to her God(Doctor)?????????????
This is where the whole problem exist for me !
When a person comes to this forum and ask for help and I provide suggestions, if they have problems it is the Least they can do to come and say I am having these problems with these suggestions, would you Please help me come to understand WHY I am having these problems with these suggestions, is it something I am doing wrong or that I do not understand or what do I need to change to correct the problems??
So, when folks do not have this Basic Goodness in their heart after asking for help with this Free info being shared with them and instead try some ideas without understanding anything about Health in the 1st place and things do not go as fast or Good as they would like and they come back and say they asked their God(Doctor) about this and he said that these ideas are wrong, then WHY did this person come here in the 1st place when the Dr. is their (God) ????????????
What do you think when you try to help someone and they come back and tell you that their Dr. said that what you were Freely sharing was False info, because this is Basically what her Dr. said !
If this old lady wants help, as I said I am still willing to help, but when she says her Dr. said so in so, what else am I supposed to believe, but that her Dr. is her God, so WHY should I make any effort to try to convince her against her will as she will be of the same opinion still !
We can lead a Horse to water , but we cannot Force it to drink ! Folks are the same way !!!!!!
It appears that maybe you and this old lady may be connected in some way, did you refer her?
If so, WHY did she not have the Basic Goodness to ask me WHY she was having these problems, vs making the post as she did that her Dr. said so in so and folks should listen to their Dr. vs learning WHY they are having problems?
If the Doctors were so Brillant, then WHY are so Many folks Sick and Diseased?
Why do folks come to this forum Seeking help?
Most of them have learned their Doctors do not know as much as they want us to believe !
This is WHY so many folks have posted Success Testimonials as may be found "Following" this Link:
http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=1028760#i
I will be the 1st to admit that I am Far from being Perfect, but at Least I am Freely helping any whom are willing to take Personal Responsibility for their own Healing !
Show me any other forum doing this that is not trying to Sell their products !
Cause and Effect !
If anyone is going to continue to listen to their God(Doctor) then they have no business comming to this forum unless their Doctor agrees with these ideas !
Smile Tis your choice.