#89337
some monk never had bad feelings about anyone, so this guy tried to wind him up. he insulted the monk again and again, no reaction. eventually he said "how come you don't get wound up? isn't that a bit pathetic?" monk said "tell me, if i offer you a sweet, and you refuse to accept, who does the sweet belong to?" the guy thought and said "you I sppose". the monk said, "now tell me, if you have bad feelings for me, and I refuse to accept them, who do the feelings belong to?"