#96922
Hi new here and so happy to find this forum...
I have been struggling for a while with a friendship/coworker. Plus to complicate things more, a romantic connection that has never been spoken about between us and to top it all off we are married women...attracted to each other.....
This, emotional affair, has been going on for 3 yrs now and it seems to be getting worse as far as her treatment of me or should I say my allowing her to emotionally abuse me. One minute she is fine and the next she is leading me on and then the next minute she is throwing her hubby in my face and then the npd kicks in and she is exagerating her hubby so I will think he is the greatest living human being, everything she tells me is grandiose and perfect. She never does anything wrong?
Its always about her and has no empathy for anyone, only when it is about her. She gets extremely jealous of me and all the friendships I have, to the point of withholding and the silent treatment...I am always wondering what in the hell did I do now? I am sick and tired of being sick and tired...we work together and I find myself so easily sucked back into her manipulations....It used to be a great friendship....then it grew from there, which she started......I could go on forever telling this wild unexpected, unspoken love connection...but I just need some advice on how to handle this person. I find myself telling myself she is a bonafide nut and so insecure...I am a stong person, lots of history to prove that, but this situation has knocked me to my knees and I am having a hard time getting back up....as this person, whom I love like no other before has taken me away from me...she fits all symptoms of npd and I don't know what to do anymore..
thanks in advance for any advice