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Re: Have you ever felt sad, lonely, depressed in a relationship?

Date:   5/14/2015 5:38:51 AM   ( 6 y ) ... viewed 350 times

Dear forbetterorworse,

Wow, I am so sorry that you are still struggling with this relationship. I just wanted to say that you have done the right thing by leaving him. I can not believe the similarities in our stories. I am in a difficult relationship as well, and he is also a Manic Depressive, Bi-polar, Cheating, Lying SOB!
He lies about everything to everyone, and the crazy part is that I had no idea he was like that for about 8 years. He was a very good liar, I trusted him completely. Then I found out that everythig that I thought our life was, wasn't. But it didnt really register, I knew that he loved me and I loved him, but as you said he brings out the worst in me. There is never a normal conversation between us, he just gets loud or takes things as if they are personal attacks and stomps off. I dont think he realizes that alot of times conversations go back and fourth your opinion, my opinion, your opinion, my opinion. A bit of banter, or debate if you will. I ask questions about your opinion because thats how I see how you came to our conclusion, it's how I learn, or how I can better help you,Ya know? His favorite thing to do is call me a know it all, it's rather sad, he will ask a question and then get upset at me for having the answer. It was only recently that I realized that he acts this way because he is intimidated by me. He has torn me down, he has made me loose myself, I was a very happy go lucky, trusting, loving, outging, honest, and loyal person. He has taken all of what was suppose to be my best years and literally chewed them up and spit them out.
What I once found to be unacceptable behaivior some how became normal and acceptable. I just kept thinking that one day he would love me the way I deserve to be loved. Well it's been 16 years and im still waiting. Now I know that he will never treat me right. I found this out the hard way. Now that I have Morgellons Disease and am very ill, have lost so much weight, and I just keep getting worse, and I cant find one doctor to help me. I thought that t the very least my HUSBAND would be there for me when I realy needed him. Oh not the case, I canot belive what a selfih a**hole he has been. He wont inform himself on the topic, just calls me crazy, doesn't care at all to talk to me about it, ask how im feeling, nothing! I look like I have cancer for crying out loud!
So my point being, you have done the right thing by leaving him. You deserve to be treated right. Love is not suppose to feel so bad. Life is too short to live with someone that brings you down. Just try your hardest to let h i m go, and remember any relationship he gets in is going to turn out the same. Whoever he is with will eventually see through him and leave him or stay but be unhappy too. These men are very sick, and they infect us too. Now if my Husband would actually leave, and let me start the recovery process. I have a feeling that would feel the same way you do if he left for good but thats why its important to remeber how bad he makes yo feel. UGH! sorry about the rant I just know how you feel and I dont want anyone to get stuck feeling the way I have for so long.
Take care

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