i enjoyed the little prayer, made me snicker to myself. i am glad day one going well. and congrats on turning the banana down, it wouldn't have tasted that great anyway, it would have left a bed taste in your mouth, (not worth the shame, anger, and torture of giving into temptation). you did good. i think it is funny that your mother and you may a race for the "throne" sounds kind of like a game--not so funny though if you aren't the first one to make it there!! stay strong and take care. cayenne queen