Who knows the Mind of God so law and grace is touchy. Like Joesph when he found his bride to be pregnant decided not to stone her ,but put her away quietly. David went to eat the shew bread which was death and Jesus healed on the sabbith which caused HEAP BIG TROUBLE! Hosea married a hooker and then remarried her when she was unfaithful. I,m not making excuses for wrong doing but I will take what God wants in our daily life. His revelation is grace to live normal lives in these godless systems.