ok, but he has now broken up again and still comes round as a 'friend' and asks me if i phoned this guy yet or felt a need to sleep with him. He is so cold to me, this didnt happen straight after i told him, this is about a month later. I am so confused by this guys actions. He comes over as soon as i make any contact with him, or he finds an excuse to come over, yet he dont want to touch me, at all. What is he thinking? I cant seem to be able to communicate with him now he has gone all cryptic and secretive. Please guys, is this cave man behavoiur? What do you guys think of when a woman, who claims to love you, sleeps with someone else, regardless whether we broke up or not!