CureZone
Old Format -> CureZone.INFO
Re: Please help, major problem!
  • Please help, major problem!   #163300   13y  1,015
    • Looks to me like you two are having problems not with your relationship, but wit...   RN vihena   13y  1,437
    • Looks to me like you two are having problems not with your relationship, but wit...   #162231   13y  918  
       Date: 4/30/2003 12:25:13 PM   ( 13y ago )   Hits:   918
      Looks to me like you two are having problems not with your relationship, but with your lack of positive communication, emotional control, and attitude.

      You two obviously love each other enough to try to stop fighting, so here's my suggestion:

      Whomever started the argument first, should get to talk. Not negatively, but to sit down, calm down, and thing about what you want to say first. Most arguments happen because they go off topic, and other things get dragged into it. So stay focused, and express your issue.

      The other person MUST listen. And listening isn't just sitting there and listening. It's processing the information to an understanding.

      After you have talked, it's the other person's turn to talk - but not about himself or how he feels, but about what he understands from what you said. It's sort of a confirmation that he did in fact, listen and understand what you were talking about. Arguments escalate because you don't listen, and simply try to force your point across to the other person.

      Okay, after that has been done, it's your turn again to say whether or not he understood. If so, then you can either continue on, or switch roles. In this case, it's his turn to talk. He responds to what you said, and only what you said. After that, YOU have to listen, and respond with what you understand.

      Repeat.

      Eventually, you'll both have an understanding of the situation from BOTH sides. Do NOT get into solving the problem until this point has been reached.

      Once you both understand the problem fully, try to work together to figure out a solution. This may open up more discussion. For example, you could reach a solution that he doesn't like. He'll get his chance to voice his idea on it, and you have to listen.

      It's a very difficult process, and sometimes may seem very foolish, but you two should take it seriously and try it out. After several encounters and practices, you'll get used to it, and it'll become second nature.
       
      Printer-friendly version of this page Email this message to a friend
      Alert Moderators
      Report Spam or bad message  Alert Moderators on This GOOD Message
  • How can I view entire discussion thread on a single page?

    How can I expand all forum messages on a single forum page?


     

    Donate to CureZone


    Terms of Service - Privacy Policy - Spam Policy - Disclaimer - Guidelines & Rules

    CureZone Newsletter is distributed in partnership with www.netatlantic.com


    Contact Us - About - Advertise - Stats

    Copyright 1999 - 2016  www.curezone.org

    0.199 sec, (1)

    Medically Proven Anti Diabetic Benefits
    Electrolyzed drinking water significantly redu...


    Natural Cancer Remedies


    Erectile Dysfunction?
    Combat ED without pills, from home. Guaranteed 100% Success


    Yeas Infection Natural Remedies
    10 All Natural Remedies You Can Try at Home for Yeast ...


    ”I Cured My Candida”
    Eliminate Candida Symptoms Within Hours!



    Heart Worms?
    Hulda Clark Cleanses


    Alkaline Ionized Drinking Water
    Cure common diseases while detoxifying your body!


    ClarkFx Parasite Tincture
    Enhanced all in one Parasite Cleansing Tincture according to...


    Cure Arthritis Joint Pain
    Imagine life without joint pain


    Signs of Kidney Stones
    What to Look for if You Feel You May be Dealing with Kidney Sto...


    Antioxidant Rich Alkaline Water
    Cure common diseases while detoxifying your body!



    Proven medical anti-diabetic benefits
    Electrolyzed drinking water significantly reduce...


    Eliminate Parasites Now!
    How to Eliminate Parasites in 30 Days or Less


    Colloidal Silver 50% OFF SALE on 8.6 oz bottles an
    Advanced Colloidal Silver-Mankind’s...


    Cleanse Internal Organs
    Millions of antioxidant ions clean and detoxify your body curi...


    Skin Disorder Cure
    Cures all common skin disorders fast and safely with no side effect...


    Fast Easy Weight loss
    Drop pounds daily drinking antioxidant detox ionized water which...


    Slow Down Premature Aging
    We are born with Gold, Platinum and other noble metals in ou...



    Clear Fungal Skin Rash
    Effective Treatment For Persistent Candida Fungal Skin Infectio...


    The Healthiest Recipes on the Internet
    Hundreds of super healthy and tasty recipes for...


    ProbiCell™ Yeast Cleanse
    fight and prevent cancer with probiotics, prebiotics and enzy...


    Lugol’s Iodine Free S&H
    J.Crow’s® Lugol’s Iodine Solution. Restore lost reserves.


    The Tesla Shield™
    Transformational Technology For Mind Body And Soul.


    -Orp Detox & Cleanses Internal Organs
    Cure Gout with Oxygen & lose weight by benefitin...


    Oxygen Weight Loss Liquid
    Fast Effortless Weight Loss with Oxygen Rich -ORP Natural An...


    Oxygen Cures & Prevents Diabetes
    -Oxidation Reduction Potential improves blood glucose...


    cycloastragenol capsules
    telomere support scientifically researched


    Cancer Cure & Prevention
    Medical Research proves an abundance of Oxygen -ORP benefits ...


    Your Ad Here