I am in the same boat! The leg pain is almost unbearable! The PMS never seems to go away and my hair falling out,that in itself is ridiculous. I have started having migraine headaches, three this year, the last one warranted a trip to the emergency room...motrin could not stop it. Also, I am noticing a slight depression. I cry for no reason and it seems like I am premenstrual and "spot" almost everyday. I have decided to have it removed. I am 40 and I am having trouble getting out of bed in the morning and even standing when I sit for longer than 30 minutes. I went from an active person to almost sloth like. I have had it roughly the same amount of time as you; I had it "installed" if you will September of 2015 and enough is enough. Maybe if you took your husband with you to your OB appointment he will see how it is affecting you. And get the vasectomy.
I did call to schedule my appointment yesterday for the removal and I asked if wanting it removed is odd. The nurse told me no, very common.