I think it is important to address the cause of these things. Men should never start something they don't intend to finish. Problem is most men think they can treat a woman like she is a man turned inside out and get somewhere. It is not happening no matter how good she may decide to fake it. It takes about two months of trust building before the wave of surrender descends making MSO possible. By then, men are looking for fresh meat, and their women, if lucky enough to still be around, are gazing at the back of his head instead of into his eyes.