First of all, why post such negative opinions of men if you, in fact, are a man? Guilty conscience maybe? Believe it or not, there are some good men out there. There are also just as many female cheaters as there are male (and perhaps even more if you take emotional affairs into account)
Secondly, at no point did anyone in this thread say their jamu stick usage is/was related to a man. My use certainly isn't. I use it for hygiene purposes because I like to feel extra clean, and have never suffered from issues like STDs, infections, or candida (which IS yeast, by the way.) Nor does my use in any way involve men. The additional sexua| pleasure I derive just happens to be a bonus.
Jamu sticks have been used for hundreds of years for multiple purposes. Maybe you should take a slice of humble pie and do more reading on a subject before talking smack to a well meaning contributor.