Sounds awful! My step aunt had necrosis of the jaw from taking fosamax and having osteo--I know she had jaw surgery but I don't know what they did. When I see her I'll ask. Will you be getting a second opinion on the treatment? It's really sad but everytime I see a dr. now I second guess them the whole time.
For 2 years I've taken Jarrow Bone-Up, which has extra C, D, zinc, copper, magnesium, etc. Recently I added some extra D and magnesium and zinc a few times a week. Fish oil and a one a day. . .I hope it is helping.
I think boniva and fosamax ARE for post menopausal. I know they cause birth defects. I'm not taking any more of those--I don't see that they did much good. I think I'll sign up for the weight lifting class at the community college. I am just not doing it here at home. That's supposed to grow bone. Please keep me updated!!!