It's one of the biggest lies in Amerikan culture, this staying with the husband that no longer cares for the sake of the kid. Leave him today, get the guy who loves you right now and never look back. True love is fleeting. It comes and presents itself to you front and center and if you turn your back on it...you'll regret it the rest of your natural life. Your child will be better off with a mom who is in love with her man than she'll ever be growing up around two uncaring, unloving roommates that will eventually cheat and scheme their way around it. '
A woman MUST be happy in the relationship or she will become a horrible mother. I've seen it up close and personal. Many women. Many lost souls. You'll eventually escape when the kids reaches 18 years of age but you'll be too worn out and abused and weathered and bitter to attract anybody worth a damn. That's your future, baby, what do you think of it? Well? You want to be that bitchy woman ten years from now who shoulda done this and that? Your guy will move on and meet another great woman and you won't have him. Friends are for losers who didn't make the right decision. You go to this guy's apartment and give him the biggest french kiss of your life and tell him exactly what you want and now. When he gets up off the floor you two quit being friends and begin lovers with passion and desire for one another. No more charades and gimmicks and wasting time. Do not disappoint me and back out or in ten years time you'll be back here asking the McCainster why your life sucks so bad. It's because you didn't take my advice. Never settle again. This guy is the one...go get him tonight!