Enjoy your life in the land of Oz, with all those elite, intelligent, enjoyable good people who have good personalities and are mind readers.
I've got to go take care of my assertiveness, defensiveness, work on my politeness and courtesies and remain even keeled. Also have to address your "sense that I'm worried and anxious and not to let people's wealth dazzle me".
Or maybe I should be more concerned about your statement:
“I’m wondering how much your boss actually values your work and your co-worker's, if you have never met this client in 12 years, never been introduced. Your post gives me the impression that maybe boss is uptight about you meeting this "special" client, maybe he's concerned about your "appropriate" behaviour, manners.”
PEOPLE LIKE YOU REALLY LOVE FORUMS LIKE THIS, DON'T YA.
Go try and dazzle someone else with your nonsense. Read a lot of MH's posts and then maybe, you'll escape from Oz and learn what this world is all about.