I reread your post and hear are my thoughts, going through it line by line.
Did you look up Herring's Laws of Cure yet?
Nervous wreck? Maybe a better way to express that is...eager to get to the bottom of this. Nervous isn't the most positive form of verbage. Small point but worth considering?
Again, not diagnosing, but approaching this from a Holistic Point of View. There is so much more to each individual health challenge in my opinion that what we know via your post. Therefore how can anyone, Medical or otherwise offer any opinion. Including me. If I were a Holistic Healer I would demand more information first before offering any opinion. Coming into your recent situation, your post, is like coming into a movie that is already 70 minutes into the showing. Where's the backs-story? The health history? The eating habits and cravings? The allergy information? Allergic to iodine? Any chicken skin or goose flesh on the back of your arms? Any gas, bloating, digestive issues? The YEAST QUESTIONAIRE? We are only seeing the effect(s) in your description and not the cause(s). Vaginosis is a symptom if you read any of Clark's books. A smellier vagina is just a different version of the same symptom. According to Clark and others, from a yeast overgrowth or fungus. That tells me many things for starters like your body is out of balance. What is the probiotic history?
Rashes and bumps-same thing. Prior chicken pox-part of the herpes family. Still with you (hives)to some degree. These are bodily clues. These are symptoms. Get to the causes. In my opinion, allopathic drugs are not that answer.
Worried sick? Concerned yes but the emotion behind the dis-ease.
Perfectly fine body. Humm??? Why would you be zapping in the first place if you were perfectly fine? What was the reason for doing the zapper? What was behind the knees? Was is for the partial vaginosis? I am serious.
In my opinion, you want to drive that "crazy virus" out of you-again, better out than in.
1 month old infant? They do have an immune system too.
Advantage on your kitties. Do more research on advantage.
Fleas, ticks, no-see-ums. I read somewhere that the Native Americans would always do a parasite cleanse after the summer each year. It appears they knew that any and all of those bug bites had the potential to transfer those "germs" to us. Their wisdom is something to consider. Maybe more so than the current medical approach in the US (suppression of symptoms).
Kind of like Lymes Disease. Here I can tell you that I have had Lymes 2 times (in 01 and 03) and have NEVER taken an antibiotic. I did special supervised herbal parasite cleanses. I have no pain or discomfort. I was already very interested and studying all these alternatives since 1978 and that truly solidified my beliefs in this natural approach.
Bedbugs or other. Always a possibility.
I know people who approach it this way:
Cleanse, detox, build your immune system. Continue to cleanse each year. Cleanse organs and glands and blood. Natural ways. No meds.
Stress about them? Sterss is often self-induced. Learn not to stress.
Insect bites and all this other stuff is going to always happen. How you respond to it and naturally cleanse will determine your health. Again, not the meds with the side effects.
Elimination(2-3 per day each day) is key in my opinion too.
But then again, I am not a Medical Doctor and only am sharing thoughts. I wouldn't ever consider trying to treat, diagnose, cure or prevent.
Good luck. Hope this helps.