Gary Craig Supports Shut Down of EFT Practitioners
It doesn’t matter if you have practiced EFT for a year or over a decade, it is clear that those who do not follow direct orders of Gary Craig and those he gives his blessings to, you are going down.
March 2017 – All German speaking countries are to follow the orders of Mr. Rother in all things EFT. After successful registration of EFT under his name for all German speaking countries as supported by Gary Craig. Mr. Rothers gives clear instructions that…
As of 31st of March 2017 – all practitioners in German speaking Countries: Austria, Germany, Switzerland:
Ø are not allowed to offer professional trainings for EFT
Ø are not allowed to test students and give Certificates to EFT practitioners
Ø are not allowed to use any prefixes to EFT
Ø are not allowed to mention: “EFT—professional trainings level 1” etc.
Well it seems clear that Mr. Rother cannot do this without the founder of EFT himself supporting it. Whatever internal arrangements they had, everyone just wish that Gary Craig gave a formal statement as to why he is definitely giving every practitioner who looks up to him the hardest time.
A stark message to all US EFT practitioners
Clearly whatever Gary Craig has done to Europe will also dawn upon the EFT landscape in the US. All might as well prepare your pockets for hefty lawsuits or if not find new ways to market your modalities.
Gary will, in every way possible, have anyone who use the brand EFT with or without prefix be subject to legal actions.
It is time EFT America – Stand Strong
It is time to take the monster down, reevaluate your stance amidst the chaos and find your voice to speak up to Gary Craig, otherwise, join a better system perhaps? This is never-ending. You better prepare thousands of $$$ to get certified and blessed by the man himself, otherwise, forget about practicing or marketing EFT.
I'mma write from a christian perspective. That cool? Great, we'll get along well.
I grew up with a mentally ill parent, and there was a really heavy famine of stability and love in the home all the way up through teenagerhood and beyond. Things first gained more stability after God gave me a wonderful hubby (such an answer to prayer!).
I grew up churched, but didn't knit well with God as my daddy from the beginning, as there's a lot of emotional assumptions that took place because of a hurting mom and dad. Authority figures can look scary from that perspective. It's been hard to trust and put faith in what counselors have said to me along the way as well- mostly.. oh, perhaps you know the story. Being self-protective means you walk in really thick emotional armor and loose a lot of quality of life that way.
I'm dealing with health issues on the side. Insulin-dependant after some Amalgam fillings were put in as a teen, and the fallout of that sort of poisoning.
Mostly the thought life comes to the forefront while I'm in prayer- especially if there's a little Iodine in use (I do transdermal and mouthwashing.) It changed the nature of my prayer life a lot, changed how I hear and percieve Jesus and my Father, and unwound a lot of feeling like an orphan. Prayer became conversation, where before it was pleading and only that out of my own head.
I won't say the perceptions of the throne and altar and presence of God wasn't there before iodine, but it became much easier to connect with him on a personal level.
Anyways, I'm writing because I have done fasting (the 3-4 day water-only) fasts, and last Sunday in prayer time the gentle words from the lady praying for me touched deeply. That.. that the thoughts my life has been based upon for so long are what are standing in the way of peace in heart, soul and body, and God's calling me to give them up and come to Him for something better. The thought rose in my heart, 'but /how/ ?!' brought tears in the thick of that moment, but the words the praying volunteer spoke really laid a deep impression in my heart.
And I know fasting really helps. It brings a whole different perception of Jesus' presence in the room, it calms the rush of the day, and it brings a sense of accomplishment- where with being on insulin, food's often a battle.
I'd like to read or hear accounts from folk about the emotional releases of fasting- I've tried for a very long time to change the thoughts of my heart by force, and being just- well thoughts, they float away and don't come back the next day.
Thank you for reading/listening, and bless if you choose to come back with input or links :-)
Please help me! I need advice. I'm a 14 year old boy being raped by my Mom's boyfriend and I can't...
I found this forum while typing in 'rape victims support'. I neep some advice from anyone here, other than talking to a teacher or friend because I don't want my mom to find out. I just don't know what to do. I'm a 14 year old boy who is being raped by my mom's boyfriend. They have been dating for two years and he moved in with us last year.
I thought Dave(not his real name) and I were getting along great and he seemed cool until four months ago when my mom went to work(she works evenings), Dave looked at me differently. Before he looked at me in a fatherly way but this time he looked at me in a very uncomfortable way, I can't even describe it. I never had any reason to think he'd hurt me in a sexua| way. He has said plenty of times how I'm such a cute boy and will be a hit with the girls but I'm sure dads say that to their sons on occasion. Anyway, he grabed me and started dragging me into the dining room. When I resisted and asked what he was doing, he slapped me.
He then threw me onto the floor and got on top of me. He ripped off my clothes and raped me anally. I screamed from the pain and he slapped me again. I couldn't believe what was happening. I felt so betrayed and terrified. I was bleeding. Why did he suddenly go from being fatherly to a monster? When he finished raping me, he grabed my hair and threatened to hurt my mom if I tell anyone what happened. He just left me there on the floor crying. When mom came home the next morning she noticed my eye lids swelled up and that I was walking funny. Dave told her that he gave me a whipping for not minding him.(mom allows him to spank me when I misbehave so this was the perfect excuse for him). Him raping me has continued almost daily for four months now and I have learned to deal with the physical and emotional pain from it all but lately I have been bleeding from my rectum more than usual when he's finished raping me. I notice it on my underwear and especially when I take a poop. It's so sore there too.
I have been hiding my bloody underwear but I'm so scared my mom will find out and I'm even more scared as to why I'm bleeding. Could I have a disease? I heard about diseases you can catch from having sex. I'm so scared. I can't go to a doctor or nurse without my mom finding out. I know this Dave guy will make good on his promise to hurt my mom because he's so violent. Like one other time when mom was getting ready to go to work, I asked her if I could spend the night at a friend's house(to try and get away from Dave) and Dave interupted before mom could answer and said "no,you can't.
I told you you were being punished for not doing all your chores" so mom agreed with him. So I was terrified when mom left because I pissed Dave off for trying to get away from him. He then grabbed me by my hair and dragged me all the way upstairs into my bedroom, threw me on my stomache onto my bed, yanked down my pants and underwear and whipped me on my bare backside with his belt until there were plenty of red and purple welts. Then he raped me more violently than he ever did before.
I thought my life would end that night because I was so overcome by intense pain. I just don't know what to do. Can someone tell me what the bleeding from my rectum might mean? And it's so sore too. I wince when I walk and sit down lately and mom has noticed but I just make up some excuse.
Is it just because of him raping me or could I have a disease?
Could I die? I'm so scared. I can't do anything whe my mom might find out because she would be so upset and I'm scared that Dave will hurt her. If it's nothing serious but just normal bleeding and soreness from sex then I can put up with that but if someone thinks it could be a disease, then I need advice on what to do.
Go to the emergency room, tell the doctor what happened. ... It is important they get DNA proof an...
Go to the emergency room, tell the doctor what happened.
It is important they get DNA proof and proof of penetration. If not your step dad can deny anything happend and he will try to turn your own mother against you.
It is the doctor's legal responsibility to report this to the police. This man is sick and needs to go to prison where he can't get to boys anymore.
If you are worried about your mom's reaction, I think she will be first shocked, angry, maybe blaming you. Don't put up with it, in time she will be glad you did it.
Afterwards, it is indespensible that you recieve treatment for PTSD, or your life will be ruined for many years to come. Please don't neglect this part.
Charkee is spot on! You must report this monster to the police---follow Charkee’s excellent advic...
Charkee is spot on! You must report this monster to the police---follow Charkee's excellent advice! I must add something, however, since you are underage, the hospital may not want to check you without a parent or guardian present. Get out of the house and go to the nearest police station---the sooner the better. It's best to get there as soon as the rape occurs.
Don't put up with this any longer! Also, don't be afraid of speaking to your school guidance counselor if you can't get to the police station. By law, the guidance counselor will have to report the rape to the authorities.
I know I should call the cops. That is something I thought about because then they could put him i...
I know I should call the cops. That is something I thought about because then they could put him in jail but do you think they might call my mom a bad mom and put her in jail too? I mean, she didn't even know but some cops say that the mom should have saw the signs. But it's my fault for making excuses and pretending I'm okay. I don't want my mom to get into trouble. And do you think he will go to jail for sure? I'm scared that he might not get jail time and then he could come after us. I am scared to do this but I know it's the only way to make it stop so I will do it but I'm mostly scared about my condition. I think I mainly want to tell my mom and the police just so I can finally go to the doctors to make sure I'm okay. I just know that my mom will be heartbroken though. She cares for this man but I know she will feel so guilty once I tell her but it's not her fault. I think I'm going to go tell my mom today so I can go to the doctor. I'm so scared as to what might be wrong with me because of the bleeding. I'm nervous to tell her(my stomache is queezy just thinking about it) but I know I have to then maybe she will call the cops so I don't have to. I will keep you updated when I can.
Listen, please...sad to say, there have been many cases where the mom didn’t know the kids were be...
Listen, please...sad to say, there have been many cases where the mom didn't know the kids were being abused by the boyfriend/stepfather---and the moms didn't get into any trouble. Once the perv was out of their lives, the mom and the kids worked together to get their lives back in order. So...the thought of getting your mom in trouble should be the least of your worries.
As for going to the police---I'm not saying that you should put up being raped again so please understand that's not what I'm suggesting here. However, the best time to go to the police would have been as soon as possible after the rape occured. They would have gotten you to the hospital where a rape kit would have been used. The rape kit would have collected semen samples which would then get DNA tested. With DNA results, the perv couldn't deny what happened. Also, since you are underage, he couldn't even make the case that it was consensual.
Yes, your mom should know what happened. However, telling her while this perv is still living with both of you, may not be the best strategy. Not only could he deny it to your mom but you could face even worse consequences from him if your mom believes him.
Here's where it gets tricky. I do hope and pray that he doesn't hurt you again but if he does...be sure you don't bathe or in any way compromise the evidence. Also be sure to wear the same clothes you were wearing when the rape occured. Stay calm so as not to tip him off that you are going to the police. If you have a Cell Phone , take it with you and tell him that you are going out for a while (shopping, visiting a friend---whatever you need to say so you can get out of the house). Then calmly leave. When you get a good distance away, call the police. Tell them what happened and where you are. Preferably stand at an intersection on a busy street, if at all possible. If there are other people around, should he find you there he's not likely to cause a scene. When the police come, tell them to take you to a hospital so that a rape kit can collect evidence. No doubt, you will have to give a statement to a detective. Stress that you are afraid to return home while the perv is there. Also, let them know your concerns for your mother.
If you don't have access to a Cell Phone , then do one of the following: 1) If you know a nearby location where there is a pay phone, go there and call 911. 2) If there is someone you trust (a friend or neighbor) that lives nearby, ask if they will let you use their phone. 3) If you live within walking distance to the nearest police station, walk there.
It's very important that you go to the police. If he gets away with this, not only will he continue to harm you but he will also harm other boys. Also, if he is raping you and not using condoms, he is putting both you and your mother at risk for STDs.
Stay brave and know you're doing the right thing. The police or the hospital will give you and your mother referrals for counseling.
As a mother myself, I know that if I found out my child had been abused, I would have moved heaven and earth to protect my child. Trust that your mother feels the same way.
Also, please be aware that none of this is your fault!
My thoughts are with you. Best wishes as you work to get this perv locked up and out of both of your lives forever.
I am so sorry that you are experiencing these trust-shattering experiences. You’ve had some ...
I am so sorry that you are experiencing these trust-shattering experiences. You've had some superb advice - ACT ON IT, NOW. Don't wait for "something" to happen or for someone to make the call for you. Call Child Protective Services, immediately, and they will contact the police. A full investigation will be conducted and this will include a physical exam. Retrieve any/all physical evidence that may still exist, if you can.
You're a brave person to put your experiences into words and your courage will see you through this horrible part of your life safely and securely onto your healing path. Something that you may want to keep in mind is that your mother is probably being abused, as well. She may be turning a "blind eye" to what's been happening to you because she's probably been threatened that you will be taken away from her, forever, if she does ANYthing that might get this rat-bastid into prison. This is a threat that many abusers use to make sure that there is no interference in their heinous activities.
Take heart, dear one. As I said, you're very brave and this courage will help you to process all that's happened to you. You did nothing to deserve it, and you're NOT a bad person because this monster did what he did to you. You are not responsible for the actions of another adult. This person did all of this to you because he could - that's the only reason. Now, get on the phone, contact CPS, tell them EVERYTHING, and you and your mother will be taken to safety, and the rotten catfish will be thrown into jail.
--Edit: I first saw after posting just how old this thread is. I hope this post and video help lat...
--Edit: I first saw after posting just how old this thread is. I hope this post and video help later searchers who are in a tight situation! --
JMT14, my heart goes out to you!
I have family who were raped by a family member, an uncle. The word never got out, and the frustration and anger of the evil that happened to her stayed in her soul, and it shows right now while she has kids.
This is a group who are in the US helping against the evil of this sort of abuse! http://bacaworld.org
This is a video explaining what Bikers Against Child Abuse are doing:
Fear is the one enemy who allows evil to continue in the darkness, and it has always thrived there. Jesus is my light against it, but even as a christian if I do not act, I still suffer physically when I let fear put that collar around my throat, and then I am in chains.
Cry out and get this evil crushed!
You are a precious person, and the enemy of your soul wants nothing more than to grind your face in the dirt and tear your heart to pieces. It is VERY scary when it happens, and what you need when you are under attack is a WARRIOR.
No, mothers do not get indicated unless they are complicit in the plot- that is, agreeing and allowing the rape to happen. That is not the case here.
I have survived abuse too- fifteen years of it, from a mentally ill parent. It was when I was 11 that my parents divorced and I had a break from the constant yelling and screaming, but I still had to stand up for myself. YES, it was scary to do, no, it did not tear my home and family apart. We had to deal with it as a group, we had to come together to fight.