Elmosfire, I'm sorry that you're having this issue.
First issue is that you've substituted p 0 r n o g r a p h y for a stress release - terrible excuse, but it's an addiction just like any other.
The worst thing about p 0 r n is how it affects the brain on a primal level. Because we are hard-wired for certain responses, p 0 r n desensitizes ANY individual (male or female) to real and healthy sexual activities. We need to accept that fact for what it is and stop trying to rationalize this.
Circumcision is a hot debate - people who are uncircumcised claim one thing, while circumcised people claim other things. Neither can know what the other experiences, obviously, so this issue is 100% moot.
Now, as far as your girlfriend goes, it would be very, very, very unwise to seek out "medical" alternatives to premature ejaculation - like v1agra, or other similar drugs. This also includes "natural" or "herbal" remedies. In your situation, premature ejaculation will be directly associated with p 0 r n and there are ways to manage this, over time, using imagination, patience, and abstaining from p 0 r n, completely.
In the meantime, I would suggest a couple of things to consider. There are penis rings that may (or, may not) help to sustain an erection. There's also the option of longer foreplay, using a dildo with your g/f, and learning how to make love, rather than attempting to recreate what you've viewed in p 0 r n. Making love - good, solid, and sensual love is a very different activity than slamming the shit out of someone's parts. What you've seen depicted in p 0 r n is NOT what women generally enjoy - they put up with it for the sake of their partners' enjoyment, but that's not what brings them to ogasm.
I would also recommend that you purchase, "The Joy Of Sex," to read and learn about healthy and safe sexual interaction.
Most importantly, lay off of the p 0 r n. It's an addiction and I don't give one steaming fart in a windstorm how many people out there object to this fact: it does NOT enhance anyone's love live. Today's p 0 r n is not the same as it was 50 years ago - it is more violent, more violating, and objectifying. Eroticism is a far different thing than p 0 r n - eroticism can be titillating, enticing, and thoroughly delicious.
Good luck to you.
My wife is 53 and uses estrogen cream to combat menopausal hot flashes. How long after application should I stop being concerned about the transfer of said estrogen from her skin to mine?
She seems to believe #1 is the right answer, claiming that it is rapidly absorbed and not a threat after that. However my paranoia prevails.
My question has largely to do with morning sex. She puts the stuff alternately on the back of her knees and on her forearms, either of which I will definitely come in contact with during a normal roll in the hay.
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