ok, but it can only be the truth, not what you want to hear.
tansey screwed up trying to confront me. that was her call. i can see now some of what fuels her, but she took great joy in lashing out at me. she saw it as sport. i saw it as sport. her call, not mine.
so i did what i do with any troll or wannabe or puffed up person i deal with on that level - i brought skills and humor, albeit dark, and whatever current graphics and top of mind subject matter i had available.
the "brb while i vaccinate myself" was brilliant so i saved it and uploaded it to use on my forum for the trolls there. she got in my face and since i dont read what she writes anyway that meme was a perfect generic response. i cant help it if she took it wrong. her social justice warrior stance does nothing for me. today retard is hate speech, tomorrow autistic will be and whatever PC term replaces that will end up the same way. you know why? because people are people. and facts are facts. and facts can be cruel. this is why its best to keep those things private. its a helluva thing to own a three legged dog and then beat the shit out of anyone who mentions it. keep the dog at home.
the comment about a subsidized job is even simpler. the only non-political or entertainment news i have seen recently out of britain was about the welfare system there. i figure chances were that since she seemed to be working at something (going by her apparent schedule) that she had a job and i figure that half the jobs in britain are government or otherwise subsidized and i tossed it out like a coin flip. again, i have a brain. she made herself fair game. she acted, and has never, and YOU have supported her crap, like she can stand on her own and is in no way fragile.
so there you have it. and, once i understood she has an autistic child it was nothing from me but condolences and i dropped it with her. and it will stay dropped.
you didnt ask but i will answer the third issue. the post on Webmaster
forum. i was truly seeking help. but i have figured it out now. the situation im in with my grandkids is like being a survivor of a nuclear war. its not the most comfortable option. i cant quarantine them. i need help. i got condemnation from the flipped-out tansey. i told her to ignore me long ago and she didnt. i believe you and others told her the same thing, but she refused your advice as well.
but you liked her harassment of me so you encouraged and enabled it instead of speaking up when you should have. you were working with more information than i was, too. you knew she had issues and you weaponized them at her expense.
you knew better.
thats the truth.