LIke puttng 'anything' large ( a fist is pretty large) into your vagina, depending on how it (fist, large dildo, etc)is used etc. I would imagine potential risks may be involved. The ability to tolerate 'fisting' speaks for the size of your vagina... is that a problem from 'normal digital or penil playfulness? with loss of sensation? I guess I'm curious about your comfort level with 'fisting' in general.
As I said or implied, much depends on 'what happens' with the fingers, hand or 'fist' when he is using this as part of your foreplay. Are there 'dangers' or 'risks'? I would think that, depending on the amount of 'force', pressure, etc he uses, will determine 'potential problems'. At the very least, it will keep the vagina stretched out. COuld this potentially lead to problems of vaginal or uterian prolapse... I would think that is also a potential and very high risk. At the very least, I suggest talking with your GYN as he would be 'the expert' on YOUR BODY since he is lookng, seeng and can give direct feedback about YOUR body. Can SOME women tolerate fisting without problems? I suspect there are. Many or most would find it painful or damaging. LIke most things about sexuality, there are individual differences about risks, acceptable behaviors etc.
I would pay attention to 'how sore you are' the next day as a benchmark for potential risks. PAIN or BLEEDING are other benchmarks.. It is your body and you are responsible for what you do or allow done to it. From what I have read, things like hygeine, a good manicure, etc are considerations. Remember, depending on 'how tight' or the 'SEAL' that is made by your vaginal muscles around his wrist will create a great force or suction on the cervix and uterous. THis is the BIG RISK when women use objects ( bottles, some dildos) that create a 'suction' when being pulled out or extracted if they get lodged or 'stuck'. it is sometimes necessary to drill a hole in the bottom of a bottle to release the suction.. Also, with sufficient insertion force, his fingers, hand or fist will be slamming up against the cervix (opening into the uterous) (NOT GOOD).. At the very least.. USE A GREAT DEAL OF CAUTION.. YOu may want to read the following: http://www.xandria.com/learn/sexuality-questions/Is-fisting-safe%3F.html
Dangerous!!!??? Are you kidding me???!!! This is exactly what America's lovefest with porn has gotten us...women actually contemplating their boyfriend's fist up their hole. Yes, very dangerous to continually thrust a clenched fist back and forth into a relatively small opening in the women's body. Especially one not designed for such activity. And I'll save you the time and trouble for the next question: Is fisting my anus dangerous? Yes. Both need to be left alone by one's fist. Geez...
When I saw who the post was from I knew you wouldn't mince words or Sugar coat your opinions!!
To the orginal poster - I agree that this sounds dangerous. Especially if it done with any regularity and certainly if it is done for as long as half an hour! Pain is your body's way of telling you to stop this.
Do you want your vagina all stretched out for your future? Fisting would become your only way of feeling vaginal stimulation if you keep this up. If you tried fisting because your vaginal muscles are already loose, this will only make it worse. Try doing exercises to tighten that baby up. Stop taking porn so seriously that you have to try everything you see.
fisting is interesting - like anal sex, there is a safe way of doing it and a lot of unsafe ways of doing it.
if the soreness you're feeling is the same kind of soreness after a night of hard penis-vagina intercourse, then you're body experienced the same shock/stretch.
when someone fists you, they are not making a fist with there hand. that's almost impossible unless someone is EXTREMELY LOOSE or you are causing them EXTREME PAIN. you put all your fingers together, lined up tight - then, you fold your thumb into your palm - then, keeping that position, kind of curl you fingers in together so that your pointer finger and pinky touch - all of your fingers should still be straight - almost (kinda) like the hand position you use when trying to make a shadow puppet like a duck (does that sound completely confusing?) well, anyway, if anyone ever tries to fist you without THAT SPECIFIC position, they don't know what they're doing and will probably hurt you. oh yeah - you put a giant glob of lube in the center of your palm to deposit it inside your vaginal cavity.
fingernails must be EXTREMELY SHORT - that can make you bleed. if he/she bites his/her nails, they should bite them really low (i know that's gross, but it's the truth), or cut them very very short, AND file them so they are soft and rounded.
lesbians have been doing this for ages and ages - as have a lot of other people (but this is my experience) - and no health problems have occured as a result in me, or in the lesbians/bisexuals/etc that i have talked to about it.
my only concern is that your boyfriend's hand is big - although, i'm assuming that you're speaking of a boyfriend fisting you, which may not be the case. i don't know about that - i've had plenty of hetero sex, but never a guy fisting me.
my girlfriend has a very petite hand, and her fisting me was the first time i experienced female ejaculation. it was great!
i would suggest researching it on a lesbian/queer oriented site - there's a whole lot of experience to yeild wisdom from...good luck!
"... and her fisting me was the first time i experienced female ejaculation."
indeed, and essentially indescribable to those not in the know. I wouldn't use the word "fisting" however, that term is far too crude. Gentleness, patience, comfort, rhythm,, and knowing the terrain are all important facets.
Moreover, one finds that the nerves in the entire area become quite sensitive, making orgaspasm occur from very light touches where one would have never expected same to have been brought on by.
Depends on the anatomy, and everything has to be oiled to the max, and go very very slowly, must be able to totally relax. If the owner of the hand is patient and skillful it can be rewarding, there are two primary hand formations, motions, and rhythms that can elicit spasms from the Skene's glands, resulting in a "squirting' that provides a very satisfying and intense release from the female side. Most women are not open-minded to even think about this, but some are and they get their reward, with afterquakes that last for several hours afterwards.