I, Im a an 18 years old latino girl, and got trapped in the "stereotyped" world where black are better. Wow! what a deception. I mean my first two B/F's where latino guys,they where good boys but never gave me satisfying pleasure in the bed ( and I got a thight vagina). So my friends told me to go for a black guy.
The first black B/F I had we went for our first time sex togeder he took of is pants and I couldn't help but laugh he had that little penis as big as my tumb, and it was hard!. So mutch for the hype. Anyway he told me to go away.( today I feel bad for laughing at him)
Sometime later, one of my friend hooked me up with an other black guy a tall muscular man. The guy had a football player physique. Then again he suffered the GI goe doll problem, not as bad as before but when I slept with him I could barely feel him and it was lightning fast ( he thougt he satisfied me in less than a few minutes).Talk about bragging... He was good at that.
This summer, I was at the beach with my best friend we were joking about teen movies (i.e. scary movie) and how mutch white guys where the laughing stock of penis jokes when suddently a guy and is shiny bikini wearing girlfriend sat near us, me and my friend could not take our eyes of the skinny white guy's "sexy little shiny biker shorts". The boy had such a huge penis!!! We where stunned... Anyway I went swimming and when I cameback my friend told me that she had a talk with the guy and that the girl with him was is ex, they where friend now. I met him, had a talk, went to the theater togeder it just sparked. He was a nice guy, down to earth, and was a little and shy about is large manhood. It just cliked emotionally and phisically. Phisically wow!! The bad side being my family not liking the idea of a white guy with me.
I know being only with two black men dosen't represent well all of them that being the same for all men of all race but One of my black friend said the same thing, to mutch hype for what her black B/F's are in the bed. As she say about guys: THE RACE DOSEN'T MAKE THEM BETTER IN THE BED, THE GUY ON THE OTHER END OF THE "TOOL" DOES.
I didn't mean that last comment the way it sounded, I just wanted to point out that size doesn't go by skin color and stereotypes pretty much never work. It was posted elsewhere on this site what the average size is and you can see for yourself as I have posted the link. There are also some disadvantages to being "large".
Yes in fact I did have problems because of size. First of all, I am sure that guys with smaller penises get better oral sex. Women can't fit much of a larger one into their mouths.
One time, while having sex with this lady while trying to enter her, it was really tight. I was taking my time and she was making a face like it hurt her. At several times it actually appeared she was crying. I tried to stop several times, to withdrawl from her but she pulled me back into her. I felt bad but when it was over she appeared to be crying and laughing at the same time (that's the best I can describe it). Afterwards she said that she really enjoyed it but I was a little uncomfortable because I thought I was hurting her.
Another things is condoms don't fit well. They usually only go partway up the shaft and tend to work their way off as you go.
Sorry this sounds like a porn novel but I didn't know how else to say it.
Yes, I have seen there are "large" condoms and have tried them. They work good but they don't seem to come with all the gadgets the others have like the "ribs for her pleasure" and stuff like that. There was this one brand that actually hurt me too, and most of the time they would rip while trying to get them on.
Don't get me wrong, I have no complaints about the oral sex it's just that when you watch others having their whole penis sucked and basically swallowed......it's looks soooo good!!
Yeah, I love the "ribbed for her pleasure" kind very much - bummer they don't come in large - maybe I'll find out how to offer it as a suggestion to Trojan.
Okay - I'm not trying to be dirty with this next paragraph, just giving a suggestion from a book I read:
As for the largeness and oral, I had to buy a book because I found my old methods wouldn't work with my new SO (I totally gagged the first couple of times - not on purpose - I was just trying to take it all in - it doesn't work). One of the suggestions it made for a large guy is to not only use the mouth, but to encircle the guy with a hand below the lips (like the lips and hand are attached) - so the hand moves with the mouth (i.e., they said it is supposed to feel like an extension of the mouth). Also, twist the hand when going up and down. So I do that and it totally drives him wild (the other hand is "playing" with "the boys"). He says it gives him three totally different sensations that drive him way crazy. I'm still reading the book to come up with more ideas.
My wife uses that technique too. She wraps her hand around me just below her mouth. Then as she us sucking and moving her mouth up and down, she twists her hand. I never fail to cum. (Sorry for the graphics but hey, we're all adults here right?)
So you actually feel the ribs on the "ribbed for pleasure"?
You're welcome! Now I have a question for you - is it better for you when your wife twists her hand up and down rather than moving it straight up and down? Just curious since I have no clue what the difference is (i.e., how it feels different)!
Yea, if you are doing that, keep it up cause it makes a huge difference in the feeling. She usually doesn't start out doing it that way. She'll just go up and down with her hand. Then as things get hotter she'll add the twisting. Try it that way if you don't already.
Take care and thanks also for the info. Feel free to email if you have any other questions.
Thanks again for your advice! One more question, if you don't mind, which I asked above. My guy at first used to watch when I did that to him down there, now he closes his eyes. He tries to last as long as possible (no success there with the method I described to you earlier).
Any insight on why you think a guy would close his eyes and not want to watch would be appreciated! Thanks!